Talk To Me: My husband has become anxious about his health since his heart attack 

Psychologist Caroline Martin is here to answer your questions on whatever issues you are dealing with in life, from work pressure and stress to loneliness and grief

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My husband, who is in his 60s, had a mild heart attack two years ago. He had a stent fitted and has made a good recovery. However, he has become anxious about his health. It's gotten worse since he bought a watch with a heart monitor. I support him as much as possible but it's a drain listening to him going on about every niggle. What happened to the carefree man I married?

A heart attack is often a traumatic experience. For some, it's seen as an existential event and they may make radical life decisions reflecting a renewed sense of purpose or identity. Others may become hypervigilant about their health as a natural response to a serious medical event. Regardless, the ripple effect can be felt within their relationships and social networks.