Sex file: His hairy back is a turnoff

Question: I think I have met a man who could be ‘the one’. The only problem is that he has a really hairy back, and for me that is something of a deal breaker. Can I suggest that he has it waxed? Or is that offensive?

Suzi says: Asking anyone to alter their appearance on your behalf is an affront, but if his hairy back is, as you say, a deal breaker, then you don’t have a choice.