Sex File: Sex doesn’t have to be taken too seriously

The woman I’m dating is very light-hearted and often starts giggling during sex. She says our sex life is hugely satisfying, so why does she find it so funny?

The woman I’m dating is very light-hearted and often starts giggling during sex. I love her bubbly personality, but I find this quite difficult because she doesn’t seem to take it seriously. She says our sex life is hugely satisfying, so why does she find it so funny?

What I don’t understand is why you’re intent on sex being so serious. Reading between the lines, it sounds as if your girlfriend’s flippancy is triggering some sort of personal insecurity.