Sex advice: It’s impossible to compete with her vibrator

Please explain to me how a six-inch piece of vibrating plastic can make my partner of 15 years orgasm when no matter what I do I have never been able to. We are both in our 60s and very close, but this situation makes me feel uneasy.

You are by no means the only male who feels threatened by his partner’s toy box. I am never sure whether, for the men who feel uneasy, it’s down to the fact that they are not involved because of what vibrators can actually do. Google: “I hate my wife’s vibrator,” and it brings up more than 51 million results. Interestingly, if you google: “I hate my girlfriend’s vibrator,” you get only 624,000 results. That difference is probably due to age. Older men are simply less familiar with the idea of women using vibrators because historically women have either masturbated privately or not at all.