Sex File: Husband refuses to sext me while at work

I like to have a lengthy build-up before sex, so I asked my husband if he wouldn’t mind sending me some sexy texts during the day while we are both at work. He really didn’t like the idea and said it made him feel uncomfortable. Is it such an unreasonable request?

A: Sexting is a bit like sex. It has entered the vernacular in such a way that it makes you think everyone is at it all the time — but they are not. In 2015 Brandon T McDaniel at Penn State University and Michelle Drouin at Indiana University conducted a study that explored sexting among married couples.