Sex advice with Suzi Godson: I think she might just be too sexy for me

I’ve started dating a really gorgeous, passionate woman. We haven’t had sex yet and she jokes about how buttoned-up I am. To be honest, I am worried she is right. I really fancy her — I can’t believe my luck. But I’m feeling so intimidated that I have been putting off sex with her.

A woman who knows her own mind, as your passionate new partner appears to, would not be with you if she did not fancy you. Opposites attract, and for a woman who wears her heart on her sleeve, your buttoned-up demeanour is probably the thing that she finds most attractive about you. That’s not particularly surprising, nor is it unusual.