Sex advice with Suzi Godson: He keeps spoiling my rhythm in bed

Q. The way that my boyfriend makes love is stilted and jerky. He’s always trying to move into new positions, which breaks the flow for me and makes it less likely that I will have an orgasm. How can I broach the subject without hurting his feelings?

A. Don’t you just hate that? There is nothing more annoying than an inexperienced lover who feels the need to speed through every position in the Kama Sutra.

The average time it takes a man to ejaculate once penetrative sex begins is 5.7 minutes.