Embarrassed to talk about boyfriends groping in the bedroom

Couples who can’t be honest with each other about sex probably shouldn’t be engaging in it says Suzi Godson.

Q. I have just started going out with a new man. Whenever we get to the bedroom, there’s a lot of grabbing, rolling around, and heavy breathing, but it never gets as far as foreplay and certainly not to sex.

I don’t find it sexy and don’t know how to get to the next level without asking — which I would find embarrassing, because he obviously thinks that his behaviour is a turn-on.