My boyfriend makes me feel like a project

I have only ever been able to orgasm with a vibrator. 

My boyfriend was fine with it at first — I think he thought he could be the one to “change” me and have success, but it’s become almost a matter of honour and it makes me feel like a project. I’m now dreading sex.

For women like you who are unable to achieve orgasm any other way, battery-operated devices are a fast and reliable route to the big O. They provide continual stimulation, at a range of different intensities. They never get cramp, or lose interest, and they provide much-needed psychological reassurance. After all, you may not be able to peak with a man, but you can be sure that you will with a sex toy.