Is it possible to have orgasms at the same time as your partner?

I’d love if I could orgasm with my husband but if I try to hold on so that we both climax at the same time, the sensation passes and then I can’t orgasm at all. 

How can I train myself to wait — is it possible?

A. In Hollywood, all a man has to do is thrust once or twice and his celluloid partner begins to writhe in orgasmic ecstasy.