Patience needed to resolve issue of premature ejaculation

Q. I’m getting married next year — we’ve the church, hotel and honeymoon booked.

All our family and friends are delighted. I know I should be looking forward to the big day, but I am worried about committing myself to a man who suffers from premature ejaculation. Sex with him is rarely satisfying. However, there is a deep love between us and we have great fun together. Do I resign myself to a poor sex life or is there something I can do about it?

A. A deeply satisfying sexual relationship often takes years to achieve. Premature ejaculation is a common difficulty and there is plenty that can be done to help resolve it.