Don’t leave your husband yet. Try being realistic, open and creative

Q. I am married for almost two years but I find our sex life dull and unexciting.

I have given him a few hints but nothing has changed. He is a man of habit and this extends to our sex life. There are times I want to scream with sheer frustration. Increasingly, I am fantasising about having passionate sex with other men. Should I cut my losses and leave my husband before we start a family?

A. When you first fell in love, sex was probably exciting and passionate. More than likely, you were totally absorbed with each other and everything flowed from there.