I’d like to spice up my sex life with my husband of 15 years

Q I am married 15 years to a man I love. I’d like to spice up our sex life. Do you have any suggestions? We are both in our early 40s and have three children.

A In the beginning, sex was probably great. Then, children arrived and a new kind of intimacy developed, bringing you close in a different way. However, in most long-term relationships there will be times when the sex begins to bore you.

Most would agree that sex is best when it’s honest, caring and fun.