I have fallen for a friend of my longterm boyfriend

QI am in a fix. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year but have fallen for one of his friends who is funny and very attractive. We get on great and I’ve often caught him looking at me. I am not sure what to do. I don’t want to hurt my boyfriend who is very sweet. I am 24 years old.

>>You have a dilemma. Do you go for your boyfriend’s friend or do you remain with him? In this instance you need to look at the relationship you are in right now. For the moment, leave his friend out of the picture.

Think about what you like about him. If you go out on a Saturday night, is it because you like being with him? If we are with somebody we like, usually we look forward to being with the person.