Diversity works without conflict

Parenting styles vary, but a couple can work this to their favour, says Helen O’Callaghan.

Growing up, you did your homework the minute you got in from school. As a boy, your husband played outside and blew off the cobwebs before settling down to lessons.

In his house, family meals were important; in yours, not so much. He’s got a more laissez-faire approach to parenting, you’re stricter.