Since his job set-back my husband is sullen and unattractive

¦ I no longer find my husband attractive. When we met, first he was fit and doing very well in his career.

A year ago, he got sidelined at work and was asked to take a wage cut. It’s had a big impact on him. He no longer works out in the gym and he’s become withdrawn.

We have sex about every second week, but I feel like I am going through the motions. We are both in our early 30s and have no children.