Widower fears he will fail to satisfy younger love interest

Feeling close and connected is what matters. Trust that if you are both attracted to each other you will both get aroused.

¦ I am in my 60s and a widower. I was recently introduced to a very attractive woman in her late 50s, who is separated. We’ve gone on a few dates and things are going well.

At some point, the issue of sex is likely to be mentioned. I am afraid she might be disappointed by my performance. I suffer from premature ejaculation and have not had sex for five years. What do you suggest?