Grieving for my dad, I’m neglecting my boyfriend

¦ My father died suddenly six months ago and I have been feeling low.

Turning up for work is about all I can do. I feel tired all the time and have lost interest in sex. My partner of five years is understanding, but says our zero sex life is getting him down. I am afraid he will leave me. I am 31.

>> Grief has its own geography and each of us needs to find our own way through the shock and loss.