Sex File: Our sessions go on for too long and I stop enjoying it — is there a solution?

By taking control and becoming a more active and assertive sexual partner, you are likely to find he achieves orgasm more quickly - as well as making the experience more varied and enjoyable, hopefully for both of you.
Lots of men, especially those who grew up watching porn, misguidedly believe that being able to have sex for ages without climaxing is a real skill.