Sex File: My husband is talking dirty but it's not working... how do I tell him?

Sex file: "It is such a good idea to make a 'yes/no/maybe' list before trying anything new. Type up a detailed list of new sexual activities that you think may be interesting to try, and next to every item put three boxes with headings: one for 'yes', one for 'no' and one for 'maybe'."

"My husband of 10 years and I have been trying some new things in bed. One of these has been talking dirty, but I find that his style — basically just narrating what he's doing as he's doing it — pulls me out of the moment and turns me off. How do I tell him?"

Good for you for agreeing to try to liven things up, but it might have been a good idea to think about what you both feel comfortable doing before deciding to introduce something as challenging as dirty talk.