O’Donnell marries lesbian lover in San Francisco

FORMER US talk show host Rosie O’Donnell has married her long-time girlfriend in San Francisco, taking “a proud stand” for gay rights in the city where more than 3,300 same-sex couples have tied the knot since February 12.

“I want to thank the city of San Francisco for this amazing stance the mayor has taken for all the people here, not just us, but all the thousands and thousands of loving, law-abiding couples,” Ms O’Donnell said yesterday after she and Kelli Carpenter emerged from their ceremony at mayor Gavin Newsom’s office.

Earlier, Ms O’Donnell announced her wedding plans on ABC television, just two days after President George W Bush called for a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage.

As the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus serenaded the couple with Chapel of Love, Ms O’Donnell smiled and said: “We really did. We got married.”

She said the president’s call inspired her to come to San Francisco, where city officials continue to perform same-sex weddings even as state courts consider the legality of those marriages.

“I think the actions of the president are the most vile and hateful words ever spoken by a sitting president,” Ms O’Donnell, who lives in the New York City area, said on the programme. “I am stunned and horrified.

“I find this proposed amendment very, very, very shocking. And immoral. And, you know, if civil disobedience is the way to go about change, then I think a lot of people will be going to San Francisco. And I hope they put more people on the steps to marry as many people as show up. I hope everyone shows up.”

O’Donnell and Carpenter, who have four children together, walked hand in hand down a marble staircase to applause from hundreds of spectators who came to witness the city’s first celebrity same-sex wedding.

Ms O’Donnell said she decided to marry Ms Carpenter, a former dancer and marketing director at Nickelodeon, during her recent trial over the now-defunct Rosie magazine. During the case, she referred to Ms Carpenter as her wife.

“We applied for spousal privilege and were denied it by the state.

“As a result, everything I said to Kelli, every letter I wrote her, every e-mail, every correspondence and conversation was entered into the record,” Ms O’Donnell said.

“After the trial, I am and will forever be a proponent of gay marriage,” she said.