A bad taste as Stevie G playing away from home

IS there such a thing as a 50/50 relationship, where both partners love each other the same way?

Or, to be cynical for a nanosecond, hold an equivalent amount of power over the other.

In my experience the answer is no. You either make all the calls or you avoid them. Even when you find Ms Perfect there’s always an unspoken agreement about who holds sway.