generalOnly in our 20s ā but heās scheduling time for sexIām 27 and Iāve been with my boyfriend for two years. Our sex life has started to drop off a bit. To fix this, he has started scheduling sex. Heās put it in our diaries for twice a week. It seems so clinical to me, and frankly it doesnāt work either. We donāt always do it on the appointed days.