Can't complain, won't complain: Why is complaining so alien to us Irish?
Moaning is self-indulgent whinging, but making a complaint is a conscious attempt to make a bad situation better. If no one complains, then nothing will change
A bus that’s being waited for never arrives, just as a watched kettle never boils. I waited an hour for a delayed bus recently.
As an enthusiastic complainer, I was ready to vent once it arrived. But I withheld my frustrations momentarily. I waited to board until last, observing my fellow passengers to see if any of them would complain to the bus driver before me. None of them did.
