Dear Dáithi: My new neighbours are loud and frustrating, but I don't want to confront them

"It sounds like you’ve all the hard work in life done, between work and rearing the children, and now it’s time that you relax and want to live a quiet life, and rightly so."

Dáithí Ó Sé: While you’re in next door get to know the new neighbours first before you drop a few hints that you and your husband go to bed early and so on

Dear Dáithí, 

I have new neighbours - and they are driving me crazy. I'm retired, I've reared all my children, and I enjoy a quiet life.