Sex File: My wife talks about our sex life to her girlfriends 

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My wife recently went away on a girls' weekend and admitted that she and her friends had talked about their sex lives. As we have good, regular sex, she thinks that I should be flattered, but I can't help feeling a slight sense of betrayal. Am I being oversensitive?

I can understand why you might be sensitive about your wife sharing details of your sex life with her girlfriends. Even though she insists that she bigged you up, knowing that your sexual prowess is being discussed behind your back feels uncomfortable. However, when friends spend a weekend away together, intimate disclosures are almost an inevitability, and it would be naive to think otherwise.