Pride at work: Personal accounts
Workers from a broad range of industries offer their views on how they have seen diversity and inclusion develop in the Irish work environment, including several people recalling their memories of coming out as LGBTQ+ to their colleagues.
“I felt comfortable being out in the workplace in such an inclusive environment”
“I decided to start my career by bringing my whole self to the workplace — meaning I was out to my teammates. I felt comfortable being out in the workplace in such an inclusive environment. I made long-lasting friendships, both through my work colleagues and through the EY LGBT employee network, Unity. There are certain projects and jobs I will remember working on, but the moments in my career which stand out as having the greatest personal impact were the overwhelming support of the firm/my colleagues for marriage equality during the referendum, and the celebration amongst my team when I announced my engagement to my boyfriend of six years. Being able to connect to my colleagues on such a human level makes EY such an inclusive workplace.”
“I am LGBT+ in work. It’s who I am. It makes sense to be out and to be yourself”
It’s not always easy being an LGBTQ+ person. At least it is not easy being out in work. I believe, nationally, about 60 per cent of people who identify as LGBT+ are not out in work.
It is no different in Dublin City Council. It is one thing to have inclusive policies to protect employees. It is another to implement those policies particularly when policies are delivered from the top down and can appear disassociated from those they are meant to protect. But to help counter this would need more employees to be out in work. This can be complicated.
I am LGBT+ in work. It’s who I am. It makes sense to be out and to be yourself. You’ll perform better if you don’t have to conceal who you are or worry if you are going to be outed in work.
In 2013, myself and a small number of colleagues set up Dublin City Council’s LGBT+ Staff network — to provide support for LGBT+ colleagues, to promote LGBT+ visibility and more importantly to generate our own issues for consideration by the HR Department. This has involved a lot of hard work by Dublin City Council’s LGBT+ Network, some of which happened easily, like for example having a presence at PRIDE each year or hosting other Networks to further LGBT+ inclusion in the workplace. We have also assisted in setting up other local authority and civil service LGBT+ Networks and with the support of the senior management produced and LGBT+ Inclusion Strategy for Employees. These things are relatively easy to achieve when there is buy-in from the top. We are lucky to have a very progressive Chief Executive and senior management team that is broadly supportive. But embedding LGBT+ inclusion in the organisation or changing the culture of an organisation is not easily achieved. We are not yet where we should be when it comes to LGBT+ inclusion in the workplace and certainly not when it comes to inclusion for our Trans colleagues.
“We spend 10 to 12 hours a day in a car on patrol, so you know a lot about each other. I’m comfortable in myself and who I am”
As an LGBTQ+ person who is working in An Garda Síochána, this might sound ridiculous, but I don’t know any different. I was gay before I joined the guards and I was, I am, accepted for who I am. I’m very lucky to have extremely supportive work colleagues and friends within An Garda Síochána.
We could easily spend 10 to 12 hours a day in a car on patrol with each other, so you do know a lot about each other. I’m comfortable in myself and who I am, so it helps, and my colleagues know that.
I don’t feel I’m treated any differently in An Garda Síochána, because I’m gay. OK, there have been times I have been called lesbian, dyke, and worse, on the street, but if I wasn’t prepared to be called names on the street, doing what I do, well, then I probably shouldn’t have joined the guards.
I marched in the Pride parade in 2019, in my uniform, as a member of An Garda Síochána. I marched down O’Connell Street, my own area of policing, with my friends and other colleagues, and colleagues from the PSNI, who joined us on the day.
I am an LGBTQ+ liaison officer in Store Street garda station, in Dublin.
I also recently attended a ‘dialogue day’ in Outhouse, on Capel Street. I met with groups from all over Ireland and we discussed how An Garda Síochána can do more to assist with LGBTQ+ people and groups around the country. I am also a member of GForce, within An Garda Síochána.
I am also called upon by colleagues to assist with incidents that involve LGBTQ+ people, or if the person has requested to speak to an LGBTQ+ liaison officer to report a crime related to LGBTQ+ matters.
“We’re ‘Different Together’. We’re not all the same; that’s our greatest strength”
I’ve worked at Apple since October 1999 and have seen a lot of change since then. What started as a 60-person operation in 1980 is now a 6000-person-strong community representing more than 100 countries.
Inclusion & Diversity is a core value at Apple and I’m proud to be part of that. We talk about Different Together. Because we’re not all the same and that’s our greatest strength. We draw on the differences in who we are, what we’ve experienced and how we think. To create products that serve everyone, we believe in including everyone.
Galvanised into action by the Marriage Equality campaign, Pride@Apple became Apple’s first DNA (Diversity Network Association) in Cork in 2015. Pride@Apple is focused on building a sense of community founded on shared experiences and advocacy for our LGBTQ colleagues.
The sponsorship and endorsement of Pride@Apple has led to the development of other groups - Women@Apple, Black@Apple, Accessibility@Apple and Parenting@Apple. We work closely with the DNAs to celebrate our intersectionality and to bring everybody in. Creating an environment that allows us to live and work in authenticity is important to us. Our group includes members of the LGBTQ community and allies - our mantra is “You don’t have to be, to belong!”
Apple has an inclusive and diverse work environment where everyone is welcome and the leadership shown by Apple in announcing our Racial Equity and Justice Initiative, backed by a $100 million commitment, is just another reason why I’m proud to work for Apple.
“I could never have imagined I’d be part of launching ‘Defend with Pride’ - the Defence Forces LGBTQI + Network”
At the beginning of my career in the Defence Forces, I invested a lot of time and energy disguising my sexual identity. I felt at the time, if my sexuality was known it would have a negative impact on my career. It was difficult feeling I could not be my authentic self when I came to work every day. I could never have imagined that in 2016 I would be part of launching ‘Defend with Pride’, the Defence Forces LGBTQI + Network. It is hard to describe the new sense of belonging I felt within an organisation that I had been part of for 17 years. This demonstration of support from the organisation gave me a new-found confidence in who I was as a person and allowed me to bring my whole self to work.
In 2018 the Defence Forces as an organisation participated in Dublin Pride for the first time in history. This gave us the opportunity to confirm our commitment to all members of the organisation but also to demonstrate to society our promise of inclusivity. This was an emotional moment for me and for many colleagues. Different generations
came together and walked together proudly side by side through Dublin City. We will continue to participate in Pride, although
virtually this year, in order to show our solidarity to the LGBTQI+ community.
“You are encouraged to be who you want to be and not cover up that you are gay or that you have a disability or that you are a mother or anything else”
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“BMS really believes in everyone bringing their authentic self to work,” says Martin Ryall, associate director, quality operations, BMS in Blanchardstown.
“You are encouraged to be who you want to be and not cover up that you are gay or have a disability or are a mother or anything else. The company believes that together we achieve more. Everyone’s view has to be heard and diverse opinions lead to the best business decisions.”
This is in sharp contrast to his previous workplace.
“I was in such deep cover that I used to read the sports results on a Sunday just to have something to talk about on Monday. I didn’t talk about me and I didn’t let people in. I didn’t feel comfortable with who I was. When I came to BMS I found a workplace where everyone is celebrated for who they are. It’s really great to be in a workplace where I can admit I hate football.”
Global pharma company Bristol Myers Squibb (BMS) established a People and Business Resource Group (PBRG) to support the LGBTQ community and allies within the organisation in 2018. Now known as Pride Alliance, this group is aimed at enhancing the company’s performance and reputation through a culture that empowers LGBTQ+ inclusion, awareness and engagement.
“It is part of the culture of BMS to support everyone,” says Martin. “I joined the company in 2016 and became part of the diversity and inclusion team. We launched a diversity and inclusion programme across the three Irish sites in 2017 and launched the PBRG in April 2018 when we had a week of celebrations, with sign-up stands and so on.”
The launch was followed up by a number of events and initiatives. “A speaker from Belong2 came in to talk to us about gay issues,” says Martin. “We want to have a culture where people are able to talk about these things. If someone in your wider circle has an issue, you should be able to open up the conversation to help them talk about it. We also support Jigsaw to help people who struggle with being their authentic self.”
“We gave out hundreds of rainbow lanyards and people wore them for the week”
PepsiCo has fostered an environment where it’s possible to bring your “whole self” to work.
Personally, this has meant much greater freedom in “being me” inside the office. I know that I work for a company where I can talk about my husband without getting a second glance.
It’s not easy to be in a situation where you need to “check yourself” or build a barrier. Thankfully, in PepsiCo, there are no barriers for the LGBT community in growing, developing and progressing. It’s reassuring to work for a company with people from all sectors of society, at all levels.”
While working at PepsiCo, I have seen that the company promotes an open and respectful environment, in which I am comfortable to be myself. I have previously worked in other companies where I was not as forthcoming about my true self. Arriving in PepsiCo I immediately felt a sense of ease. The visible resources both in culture and diverse standards expected, are promoted across all sites. This is re-enforced by senior management who will drive the LGBTQ+ agenda through to all levels of the organisation.
I feel that we have an exceptionally positive environment and policy protection for LGBT+ employees in PepsiCo.
PepsiCo’s employee resource group for LGBT+ employees, Equal, has nearly 30 years of history behind it with chapters all over world, including Ireland. What I feel makes this group work so well, is it’s very much a grassroots group. It’s made up of people that get involved because they want to be involved, whether it’s for themselves in bringing their full selves to work, or as an Ally for their friends as well as their co-workers.
As part of our celebration of Global Ally Day celebration last year, we had a huge Ally board that we asked people to sign as a way of taking an Ally Pledge and be an active supporter of LGBT+ people both in the workplace and at home.
What will always stay with me is the stories people had when they came to sign. One of the operators marched up to the board and proudly took a marker saying, “I’m delighted to sign this. I have a gay son and I’m very proud of him.”
One lady asked for a photo of her signing so she could send it to her mother and her wife. A team came up to sign together and it turned out they canvassed for marriage equality together.
We gave out hundreds of rainbow lanyards and asked people to wear them for the week, which they went on to do for the whole year, and proudly wear them while visiting our sites across the globe! Little things like these may seem inconsequential, but as an out gay man in the workplace, it swelled my heart to see the sea of rainbows in the Pepsi canteen.
“I don’t really ‘come out’ anymore, I just live my life openly and talk about my wife and family as anyone else would”
I think being a lesbian and having personal experience of how homophobia can impact on your mental health, definitely gives me motivation to try and build a better world and improve the mental health of young people. I think being a lesbian has given me opportunities to develop insight into those structures, and it helps me to apply that across other parts of society to other systemic issues like racism, poverty, ableism etc that impact upon mental health.
I’ve known I was gay since I was 14, so I’ve had a lot of time to figure out my sexual orientation and how it works in relation to all other aspects of my life and personality. I don’t really “come out” anymore, I just live my life openly and talk about my wife and family as anyone else would. I feel really privileged to be able do that, and to work somewhere where that’s possible.
I co-developed, with BeLonG To, a workshop for adults who work or volunteer with young people around supporting the mental health of LGBT+ young people. It’s a great way for the two organisations to bring their expertise together to help make schools, youth services etc a more welcoming and inclusive place for LGBT+ young people.
Pride is both a demand for a better world and a celebration of what we’ve achieved. It’s about visibility and solidarity with those who cannot march, whether because they’re not out, or because it’s not safe in the area or country they live in.
Jigsaw, the National Centre for Youth Mental Health in Ireland, works to ensure that no young person feels alone, isolated and disconnected from others around them. It provides vital supports to young people with their mental health by working closely with communities across Ireland.
“Being an LGBTQ+ person should in no way discourage you from this career”
A considerable amount of my role involves ensuring that Pinterest users have an inspiring experience on the platform. As an LGBTQ+ person of colour, my current role is quite interesting because those intersectional identities greatly inform and enhance my work.
Pinterest’s mission is to help people create a life they love, and I believe my role is even more important to help ensure Pinterest remains an inclusive, diverse as well as a welcoming platform.
Last year during Pride month we organised a fundraiser for BeLong To. We also marched in the Pride parade representing Pinterest for the first time.
This year, we established Pinwheels in our Dublin office, as our local chapter of the Pinterest employee community group that advocates for an inclusive product, company culture and brand on behalf of Pinterest’s LGBTQ+ and ally community.
Today’s tech industry is becoming an increasingly important (and sometimes indispensable) career choice. However, at the same time, because of its global reach, it is now a place where people from all over the world work. It is on its way to embrace diversity in terms of sexuality, gender and racial identities among others. So my advice is that being an LGBTQ+ person should in no way discourage you from making a career in this industry.
“I helped build out a strategy of inclusion”
As the saying goes — if you can’t see it, you can’t be it — so I feel it’s very important for other LGBTQ+ employees to see someone like “themselves” in leadership roles and being successful.
I’ve been heavily involved in diversity and inclusion initiatives during my time with LinkedIn. I started by leading our Dublin LGBTQ+ Employee Resource Group, out@IN. In this role, I helped build out a strategy of inclusion, education and an ally network. After over two years of successfully leading this for Dublin I was asked by our leadership team to build on this success and roll out an extended network across all of our EMEA operations. During this time we rolled out seven new out@IN chapters across Europe. We identified those with leadership skills within the group, mentored and coached them and I eventually passed the baton on to them to lead this group.
For me, Pride means not only self-acceptance, but also self-celebration. Being proud not only of who you are inside and out, but also of the LGBTQ+ community that you are part of, both past and future. We’ve come a long way from the 10 individuals who marched at our first Pride in 1974 to where we are today. We still have a lot of work to do, particularly with Trans rights, but I’m proud of our community and confident that we will continue to push for change.
“We all accept each other for who we are”
I enjoy my job as a checkout supervisor in Tesco, Mahon Point. I’ve been with the company about seven years. For me it’s very important to work for a company that is accepting of all people and which celebrates diversity as Tesco does. I’m very happy at work as my employers and colleagues are welcoming and open on diversity and inclusion. We accept each other for who we are.
I personally have always felt fully included in the workplace. I’ve always worked on checkouts and am now a checkout supervisor. I really enjoy my job and all the things that come with it.
I’m really involved in our fundraising for our charity partner Temple Street and love all the events that we do in-store as it gives me a chance to give back to a great cause whilst expressing my creativity with the interaction of customers.