Sex advice: My wife reaches for her phone straight after sex

My wife and I have been married for 10 years and for the past couple of years she seems to be on her phone all the time. It’s irritating anyway, but what I find hurtful is that she reaches for her phone immediately after sex. What should I do?

Human beings have always turned to some form of neutral distraction after sex. Traditionally it was the post-coital cigarette. In 1988, when the American tobacco company Philip Morris surveyed 400,000 smokers about their smoking habits, more than half admitted that they regularly lit up after sex. More recently it has been the remote control.