Sex advice: I find his post-work tracksuit gear really unsexy

Sex advice with Suzi Godson.

I’ve just moved in with my boyfriend, whom I met two years ago. When he gets home from work he just puts on his sweatpants and an old baggy sweatshirt. I miss him coming over to my house in his work suit, looking so sharp and handsome. I used to look forward to getting the suit off him; but these tracksuit bottoms — not so much. Is it selfish to wish he’d make more of an effort?

I understand you. Tracksuit bottoms and a comfy sweatshirt will never be able to compete with the sexual allure of a crisp white shirt, a smart suit and a generous spritz of Dior’s Eau Sauvage. But is it fair to expect this from your other half every day? After all, all women know that coming home, undoing your bra, kicking off your heels and letting it all hang out is one of life’s great pleasures. It is no different for a man who has been stuffed into a smart suit all day.