Boyfriend of six weeks wants to wait for perfect time

I’ve been going out with a new man for nearly six weeks. We kiss, but we haven’t had sex. He says that he wants to wait for the perfect time, but I think he’s just building up his expectations too much. Or maybe he just doesn’t fancy me.

Hmm. I can understand why alarm bells may be ringing. There is obviously no set timeframe for when sex should happen for the first time in a new relationship, but in my experience, when two adults have the hots for each other, the perfect time is usually pretty soon. I can see why six weeks feels like such a long time.