Sex advice: My boyfriend insists on showering before sex

Suzi Godson delivers some sex advice. 

My boyfriend always wants to shower before sex. He says that showering together turns him on, which is great sometimes, but it removes any spontaneity.

Certain people, such as your boyfriend, find the pre-sex shower more arousing than the sex. Having a shower can, of course, be very sexy, but the decision to have sex is not one that should be determined by access to a bathroom.