My fiancé had a fling with a man but I want to make it work

* My fiancé had a one-night fling with a man just before we got engaged, which he recently told me about (we’ve been engaged for six weeks, together for three years).

He has explained that it was something he needed to try before he proposed, and it proved to him that he’s definitely not gay. I was horrified but I want to make it work. Am I being an idiot to trust him again?

>>You are not an idiot. You are a woman whose beliefs have been shaken to the core. The cognitive dissonance between your faith in your fiancé and his same-sex infidelity is forcing you to find a rational solution to an incomprehensible problem.