First sex encounter with my boyfriend was over in minutes

¦ I have been dating someone I really like and recently slept with him for the first time. It was the worst sex I have ever had.

He clearly didn’t know what to do, there wasn’t any foreplay and it was all over in a couple of minutes. He’s only had short-term relationships before and now I know why. Is there a kind way of teaching him what to do?

>> No foreplay and a 60-second jackpot doesn’t sound very promising, but first sex is often the worst sex.