Yes, mum is the right person to tell daughter about facts of life

Q. My daughter is ten years old and I feel it’s time I told her about the facts of life.

I remember the first conversation I had with my mother about sex and it was awkward and stilted. The subject was never brought up again. How should I best approach this topic with my child? I’d like it to be the start of an ongoing conversation. Also, are there any books/websites you would recommend?

A. Each parent must find their own way to talk about the facts of life with their child. Sometimes this can leave young people feeling embarrassed. If they pick up an attitude that sex is something shameful, then young people often get information from peers and the internet that can be wrong or unclear.