Sex File: Should I tell him about my new vibrator? 

"A study of more than 3,000 people by Indiana University tested this theory and found that 70% of men had no problem with their female partner using a vibrator."

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My partner is recovering from prostate cancer, which obviously put our sex life on the back burner. Without him knowing I bought a vibrator and it has been a revelation. Now we're starting to get things back on track, should I give it up? His ego is still quite fragile.

I don't see why you can't have both. If your partner has not been well he is likely to have less stamina, so anything that ensures you both have a good time without him having to exhaust himself will surely be welcome.