Talk To Me: I'd love to stay at home and take care of my baby but can't afford to  

Psychologist Caroline Martin is here to answer your questions on whatever issues you are dealing with in life, from work pressure and stress to loneliness and grief

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My baby is eight months old and I’m due to return to work soon. I used to love my job and went over and beyond to keep my bosses happy but my priorities have changed and I’ll no longer be in a position to work long hours. The truth is I’d love to stay at home and rear my child, just like my mother did, but it’s not financially viable. My partner says this is a temporary phase and my baby and I will adjust.

Congratulations on your new baby. The first few months can feel like a whirlwind and you are now finding your groove and settling into a routine.