Talk To Me: I met a man after my husband died but we only meet every second weekend 

Psychologist Caroline Martin is here to answer your questions on whatever issues you are dealing with in life, from work pressure and stress to loneliness and grief

Pic: iStock

My husband died five years ago when I was 64. I was devastated but slowly picked myself up and started reconnecting with old friends who encouraged me to try internet dating. 

Within weeks I met a lovely man who lives about a two-hour drive away. He was very attentive at the beginning with daily calls and weekend dates.