That your partner's noises are loud enough to be heard outside means you may be trying to achieve orgasm while experiencing strong feelings of distraction, irritation and embarrassment
People tend to adopt their respective positions on this because it enhances the sexual experience for them.
My new boyfriend makes a lot of noise when we make love and I'm sure my neighbours can hear us. It's embarrassing and it puts me off. How can I ask him to be quieter without cramping his style?
When it comes to vocalising sexual enthusiasm there tends to be two kinds of people — those who let it all out and those who hold it all in, with very little in between.
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