Talk to me: my partner says he's not sure he wants to be a dad

Psychologist Caroline Martin is here to answer your questions on whatever issues you are dealing with in life, from work pressure and stress to loneliness and grief

I'd love to start a family but my partner says he's not sure he wants to be a dad. Every time I bring up the topic, he says he needs more time or that I'm putting him under pressure

I'm in my mid-30s and in a long-term relationship. We both are working and have managed to buy a house.

I'd love to start a family but my partner says he's not sure he wants to be a dad. Every time I bring up the topic, he says he needs more time or that I'm putting him under pressure.