Séamas O'Reilly: The strength and horror of Adolescence is how much we have to learn

Mark Stanley as Paul Barlow, Owen Cooper as Jamie Miller, and Stephen Graham as Eddie Miller in Adolescence.
Writing a weekly column often means having to qualify previous statements, shortly after making them. So, a week after you thought you’d heard the end of my opinions on modern masculinity, Netflix’s arrives to put me back on my soapbox. A show so good that it forces me, for the second time in three weeks, to declare that the best TV show of 2025 has arrived.

Anchoring all this, perhaps, is Stephen Graham’s performance as Eddie, Jamie’s dad. There are few superlatives left to offer Graham who, with Jack Thorne, also served as the series’s co-writer. He’s been just about the finest actor of his generation for some time, and in Eddie he’s found yet another conduit for his full suite of powers; a warm and loving man thrown into an impossibly awful situation, filled with a combustible mix of fear, shame, confusion, and anger that wars with his intrinsic sense of moral decency. It is a powerhouse of a performance. His command of Eddie’s shock and rage is not merely impressive, but very nearly paranormal.
