On my first day at school I sat next to a boy named Donogh Roche. We agreed we would go to each other’s houses after school but we never told our parents. I was four. I thought he would come to my house, he thought I would be going to his. Both of us ended up waiting outside our gates. It was heartbreaking for us at the time. We hadn’t figured out the logistics of it all, but we’re still best fri