I have been on antidepressants since I was 20. They have definitely helped with my mental health for the past eight years, but there is a downside: I have zero libido. Until now, this hasn’t been a problem, but I’ve met a man I want to have a fulfilling relationship with — and that includes sex. How do I get my desire back?

My 33-year-old partner is able to maintain his erection for a long time. However, it can take him around 30 minutes to climax and ejaculate.