Dear Dáithí: I want Christmas away with my husband, without his brother ruining everything

Agony uncle Dáithí Ó Sé on Christmas with the in-laws. Picture: Domnick Walsh © Eye Focus LTD.

Dear Dáithí,

I’m sure you get lots of letters complaining about family at this time of year, but I’m actually at the end of my tether and I don’t know what to do! My brother-in-law is the problem. He’s been the bane of my life since I married my husband two years ago.