Irish celebrities help students say goodbye to primary school

Children’s author Sarah Webb didn’t want sixth class pupils to miss out on their graduation, so to mark their end of year she organised a series of inspirational videos delivered by well-known Irish people, says Helen O’Callaghan
Irish celebrities help students say goodbye to primary school

Children’s author Sarah Webb didn’t want sixth class pupils to miss out on their graduation, so to mark their end of year she organised a series of inspirational videos delivered by well-known Irish people, says Helen O’Callaghan

Amy Huberman.
Amy Huberman.

Marita Conlon McKenna’s granddaughter Holly was hours away from making her confirmation when lockdown stopped it. For the 12-year-old —like sixth class pupils countrywide — it was the first in a series of missed milestones.

“My granddaughter doesn’t complain, but it’s hitting them all. Sixth class has become such a rite of passage. They’re missing out on all the wonderful things schools organise for them between Easter and the summer,” says author Conlon McKenna, citing the Covid casualties Holly’s enduring.

“They were putting on a school play. She’s very sporty and was all geared up to play matches. There’ll be no big sports day.”

She compares the lockdown-impact on sixth class 2020 as akin to being flung out of the nest onto the ground.

Writer Marita Conlon McKenna.
Writer Marita Conlon McKenna.

“They had no cognition of what was ahead of them. It’s very dramatic — to be in school one day, and the next you’re told take your books and go. And that’s it — you’re gone. And you’ve been in this school since you were four and you adore your teachers.

All that traditional build-up to leaving, all the plans teachers had for preparing you for secondary school — all gone. And you’re being told at 12 to get on with it.

Which is why Conlon McKenna was delighted to participate in an initiative spearheaded by children’s writer Sarah Webb. She invited 33 well-known people to record short inspirational videos for sixth class students to mark the end of their school year.

Writers, actors, sportspeople and scientists have all come on board — including actress and writer Amy Huberman, rugby heroes Gordon D’Arcy and Rob Kearney, Laureate na nÓg Áine Ní Ghlinn and activist Joanne O’Riordan. The ‘Messages for 6th Class’ videos are available free via Children’s Books Ireland website — — and on YouTube.


Sarah Webb
Sarah Webb

As a creative writing teacher with many sixth class students in her writing clubs, Webb has seen their disappointment at not having a live graduation. “They’re just very down about not having their special year. A lot of the talk has been about Leaving Cert, but sixth class is important too. It’s a big move from primary to secondary and it’s difficult for them not to mark it.”

Webb wanted to let sixth class 2020 know how important they are to everybody and that they’re not forgotten. “Some are keeping their feelings to themselves. Many are trying to be very heroic and strong. I just wanted to do something to give them a bit of a boost.”

Children’s author and dad-of-three Alan Nolan is among those who’ve recorded video messages. His youngest son, Sam, “a very outgoing child, into his friends and his sports”, is in sixth class and was really looking forward to an adventure trip to Delphi, now cancelled. Both his older brothers had done it.

Alan Nolan.
Alan Nolan.

“There’s rock-climbing, canoeing — it’s real team-building, a rite of passage. The children half dread it, they’re away from home for the best part of a week, but they love it and they’re buzzing forever after it. Poor Sam’s missing out on that,” says Nolan.

Senior clinical psychologist Yvonne Quinn says sixth class children are likely feeling a mix of emotions right now— really sad and angry they’re not getting to have the usual school finish or to have the final months of connection and camaraderie with the friends they’ve made in primary, as well as anxiety about transitioning to secondary school.

To prepare them, teachers would spend a lot of time looking at all they’ve achieved in primary, the friends they’ve built up and how they’ve matured. They’re missing out on a whole phase that’s about helping them feel robust and ready to step into the new.

Quinn says knowing at end of primary you’re the big fish in the small pond really resources children psychologically. “They’re psychologically filled-up to make that transition.”


Pointing out that ending — saying goodbye — is an essential part of transitioning, she says children may feel grief at this year’s expectation-reality gap. “They’re not going to have that lovely finish they fantasised, yet they’re still transitioning. It’s important to be able to mark that — but with the knowledge that we rarely have the perfect ending.”

She urges parents, teachers and significant others in sixth class children’s lives to get resourceful about helping them create a sense of ending and to validate children’s feelings about their losses.

For parents especially, experiencing loss will trigger other experiences of loss they’ve had. Parents may want to deflect away from what their children are feeling, but it’s important to say ‘yes, you feel sad, frustrated and angry — that’s OK’.

Parents may even have an opportunity to do this in a more connected way than if lockdown hadn’t intervened — if it was simply life as normal with the usual sixth class graduation rituals. “Pomp and ceremony sometimes didn’t allow space to think about the emotion that comes with endings.”

Quinn encourages parents and teachers to incorporate symbolism into the ending markers they help create for children.

She says symbolism will provide children with something to hold onto. “Children might write a letter to their teacher — or to themselves about leaving school: what were the highlights and achievements of primary? What will they carry with them into secondary? Maybe bury a time capsule in the garden or put a message in a bottle and throw it out to sea. Mark the ending in a way that’s tangible.”

Messages to sixth class 2020

Alan Nolan: “Secondary school is not scary. It’s not something to worry about. Some of your friends from primary will go with you, but you’ll make friends from other primary schools. My older boys had three or four primary school friends going with them to secondary school. All their other friends, they met in secondary – they’re very strong friendships.”

Marita Conlon McKenna: “Be proud of what you’ve learned in your primary school. It’s where you’ve learned all your skills — reading, writing, drawing, how to think about things. This is what your teachers have given you to bring with you. Bring that creativity and love of different things — of books, drawing, writing — with you into secondary school.”

Author John Boyne: “The same thing happened to me — I missed the last couple of weeks [of primary] because my appendix burst. I was quite upset. My mother brought me the seven Narnia books by C. S. Lewis – it was the start of me writing stories. Hopefully, you’ve found something important to do too during lockdown.”

Actress Amy Huberman: “Feeling a bit nervous [about secondary school] is good: it shows you care.”

Children’s writer Judi Curtin: “Of all the sixth classes ever, you’re going to have the best stories to tell your grandchildren.”

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