Learning points: My daughter gets upset when my boyfriend stays

Q: I have been separated for two years. I had a difficult time on my own, but, thankfully, I have recently met a wonderful man, who is generous and caring. My six-year-old daughter likes him, but does not like when he stays over.

She is angry and irritable in the mornings, after he has stayed. I would like him to move in with us, but I do not really know how to approach this with her. I am very happy, for the first time in a long time, but I do not know how to talk to her and I’m worried she won’t want him to move in. This is causing me stress. What do you suggest I do?

First of all, congratulations on finding happiness with your new partner. It sounds like you had a difficult time after the separation, but that you have rebuilt your life.