Sex advice with Suzi Godson: I hate the sexy underwear my boyfriend bought for me

My new boyfriend bought me some “sexy” underwear for Christmas that I hate. I wore it once, hoping that would be enough, but ever since he has kept hinting that I should wear it again because he enjoyed it so much. I don’t want to hurt his feelings - but I don’t know why I have to get dressed up for sex.

My new boyfriend bought me some “sexy” underwear for Christmas that I hate. I wore it once, hoping that would be enough, but ever since he has kept hinting that I should wear it again because he enjoyed it so much. I don’t want to hurt his feelings - but I don’t know why I have to get dressed up for sex.

It’s a little late for a guide on “what not to buy a woman for Christmas”, but if there were a list, sexy underwear would definitely be on it. The same applies for Valentine’s Day next month, however tempting it may seem as a gift.