Loud and proud: How gay pop stars are a boon to youngsters

Dorothy Parker once said that heterosexuality is not normal, itâs just common. Which is why the proliferation of openly gay popstars is likely to be a huge boon to the multitude of gay kids taking their first steps out of the closet. Considering that 12 is the most common age a person discovers they are LGBT, and 16 is the age when they first tell someone, much of what they glean about what it is to be the way they are, comes from popular culture.
âYou absolutely do need people who are speaking your language,â says Martin Aston, author of Breaking Down the Walls of Heartache: How Music Came Out. âWhile Madonna and Lady Gaga, Iâm sure, feel that they very much have a kinship with the gay community, itâs vital for young people to have artists who project the authenticity of experience, a sense that maybe they have gone through what you might be going through and got out the other side.â