What to do if your child is being ignored by a grandparent

IT’S common enough for children to perceive that a grandparent prefers a sibling or cousin over them.

“Grandfathers from an earlier generation might find it easier to relate to a grandson rather than a granddaughter. Or a grandparent with poor health might not be able to handle a child with a very boisterous personality.

"Without even realising, they might gravitate towards a child who’s easier to handle,” says parent coach Val Mullally.