Morning sex means I am late for work

My boyfriend and I have different schedules with regards to sex.

He likes to have sex in the morning, when I need to get to work, whereas I prefer it in the evening because I need less sleep than he does, and don’t feel hurried. How can we compromise? It always seems to be me who gives in but I don’t want to end up resenting sex because it makes me late for work.

As you are discovering, one of the major problems with sex in a long-term relationship is that few people have the same energy levels, bodyclocks or daily commitments, so finding a time when you both feel relaxed as well as turned on can be difficult.