I just want sex, nothing more, from the guy I am dating

* I am single, but dating someone. I think he’s great, but I’m not interested in a relationship at the moment, just sex.

He doesn’t believe me and has accused me of playing games. I am happy to date in a casual way, but unlike him, I am really not interested in anything more. I split up with a long-term boyfriend a year ago and this arrangement is working for me. What’s his problem?

>>You’ve been honest with the guy from the start and you can’t do much more than that. Although he is probably beguiled by your refusal to be possessed, he is simultaneously suspicious because your behaviour challenges all the expected social norms.